but why cant my lifted jeep ride like a m3!
Ha! Point taken, and if the subject line was more along the lines of "Want lift, what kit?" then your criticism would be pretty spot on and very well deserved! However, I don't feel like it's too much to ask to have a vehicle that feels normal to drive using a setup that everyone seems to like. Since I explicitly and repeatedly stated that I don't care for or against a lift, I'm not as accepting of the drawbacks as others that desire a lift may be willing to accept as just part of the deal.
I was looking to fix a specific problem and through a long series of postings ended up getting directed to the "best" springs (OME 927/948) and shocks that get mixed reviews from the same person (
Upgrading Stock Suspension W/ NO Lift?,
Bilstein/OME Lift suggestion by TomMudd
I've said before and I'll say again, it's entirely possible that I'm expecting too much. Honestly, the rear end is still more stable than pretty much every Chevy truck I've noticed. I'm not trying to pick on any manufacturer, but I've been paying close attention and it seems the Chevy's are the bounciest and the Fords are the stiffest, with Dodge in-between. SUV or pickup, doesn’t seem to matter. Just seems like a design philosophy.
That being said, just today my ESP lights came on going over a set of trolley tracks with a steep downhill on the other side and the fronts topped out over a several speed bumps. I have zero confidence in this majical set-up that everyone, just everyone has absolutely no problem with. This seems like a pretty poor design philosophy.
For reference, my speed around curves is only about 10 mph above the advisory speed limits. It may get better with time, but probably not with the caster the way it is, not enough camber change with wheel turns. I can't really think of any other way to provide an objective comparison.
I may try a few more things to make it livable, lower tire pressure (at 36), have someone else align it (plan for Friday), lower my expectations, buy and install all new bushings, ball joints, track bars, a arms, etc. to fix a problem that could have been solved with $30 pair of springs…any other suggestions?