I've been playing with rockers this weekend so let me share my experience and you can make your own mind up.
Mines a 2004 3.7, but may be a later engine I'm not sure, can't find an engine number anywhere.
I had a HGF and 3 (yup, amazed the engine wasn't destroyed!) rockers thrown off 3 different cylinders. It's all been apart and the heads went back on this weekend and I have been 'rubbing my chin' about what to do with the lash adjusters / lifters and rockers.
I came across an interesting video on Utube, search on 'jeep rocker arm problems resolved with washers'. He proposes that the rockers are thrown because the lifter 'pocket' is sometimes milled too deep. So he puts in some washers to move the lifter up. Well, think what you want of that. The interesting thing for me is the criticality of the lifter position in its stroke and the proposal that mis-positioned, weak or stuck lifters can collapse when the engine is off, so when you turn over cold the rocker gets thrown? I took 2 lifters apart and the internals were stuck on both, that meant that with the engine off and no oil pressure the lifter drops by 2-3mm and everything becomes loose.
I decided in the end to renew all the lifters as that is where I saw the problem, I kept the rockers. I test fitted them with washers underneath with the heads on the bench, but for my situation it looked like some valves were being held open and the lifters were at the very bottom of their stroke. So I decided just to go with new lifters, old rockers and see how it went.
I am putting the exhaust back on tomorrow so I will let you know, but (IMO of course) this feels like the best solution for my engine. Replace lifters, keep rockers.
I bought aftermarket unbranded rockers off ebay, £90 for 12 if that helps.
Hope that all makes sense!