Changing oil is pretty straight forward.. So Not going to botherThere is only about 4 companies who actually MAKE the filters.. I would go with Wix (they do make their own), can get them at O'Reilly Auto Parts
Wix Part #'s
2.4L: 51348
3.7L: 51516
2.8L Diesel: 51516
Here is a good read on Filters >>
http://minimopar.knizefamily.net/oilfilters/reference.html
The transmission there is a youtube video on how to do it. The video is a bit corny but hits all the marks.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dgGW5ty_QmI
You will need 4 qts of ATF+4 fluid. Make sure you get the right filter kit for your trans. My 06' the parts catalog was wrong..
The trans 42RLE uses Wix Filter kit 58013 << Most likely this one
The trans 45RFE uses Wix Filter kit 58843
Changing the transfer case fluid.. Use 3.4 pints of ATF+4 fluid. If yours has a skid plate, you may need to drop it to get the fluid out.
See video here >>
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=StDdYgPt9NI
Rear axle oil change. . Just unbolt the back back plate, have something to catch the fluid. Wipe down the back plate, use razor blade to scrape off the red or blue gasket sealer. Apply fresh RTV where you scraped off old. Replace back plate replace all but top bolt. Replace fluid til it comes out hole. (3 bottles should make it full, just top it off till it reaches hole)
Brake fluid - White container on driver side with yellow cap. What I do about once a year is suction out the fluid in the white resevour and fill with fresh fluid. You could get **** and rebleed everything. Since I do not have a autobleeder I just use a shring to suck out old fluid and refill with fresh. I guess this is an 80% solution.
Radiator coolent. I heard its good to flush, I heard it damages things to flush. Problem is with these new cars is they have plastic parts on the radiator that can break. So I opted for the drain and replace.
Air Filter - replace as needed but since its your first time. I would replace. I would stay away from K&N/Amsoil (they flow good but let alot of dirt in). Here is a good article on Flow and Filteration on Air Filters. Results will surrprise you >>
http://www.bobistheoilguy.com/airfilter/airtest1.htm I let you form your own opinion on air filter, this tends to be a highly contested subject.
Think that is my $1.25 worth.