Sorry to hear about your bad luck-I can relate. My wife and I were hit head on in her '06 Libby by a Ford Escort. The Escort folded like a wet paper towel while our Libby only had cosmetic damage, a bent A arm and bent rim. However, the total cost of the repairs was over $12,000, just shy of the "Totaled" threshold for our insurance company. By the looks of the damage, the age of the vehicle (mileage?) I'm sure they will just total her.
Ok, let me propose something here without offense.....
Maybe the accident is a good thing in that you will receive a large insurance check, pain and suffering money etc... Don't forget the soft tissue pain you know. We cleaned up on both and I bought my '07 in cash.
Glad to hear you are ok.
Have faith man it will get better.